Q) I have just started a relationship with a friend that I really like and trust. We are new to the teachings of tantric love. We are sort of learning as we go...I just came out of a very rough and angry marriage. When my friend found my G-spot it was a very painful but enjoyable experience. I think that we have found that there are many old wounds to heal. I want to continue releasing that block but I also want to find and help my partner heal as well. I am not too sure just how to go about doing that. I would appreciate any suggestions you might have.

A) Tantric practice is about taking small risks that expand our consciousness and bliss state. Bravo for your bold and pure heart investigation to healing and growing!

The G-spot is actually an area rather than a spot. It changes shape, size and sensitivity with different influences. It swells and becomes easier to find and further stimulate when it is aroused by touch. Emotions seem to get stirred up when the G-spot is stimulated. Past trauma, as well as unexpressed emotions in the present, create holding or armoring in the vagina and the G-spot area...