"We're in our mid fifties. My partner talks a lot about sex but when it comes to the nitty gritty, he can't stay up. What can we do?”

Tantric philosophical origins are thousands of years old. Transformational sexuality was one of many paths that were included in the whole-life perspective that Tantra holds. Health and natural medicine were one of those parts. Both Tantrics and Taoists practiced ejaculation control techniques that allow the chi or life-force energy to build in a man, as he ages.

The teachers of these practices today say that a man may have many orgasms but should retain his “seed” to increase his energy and sexual drive. These techniques work. They take some practice, but in most cases, if a man and his partner are willing to learn (by the way, this is fun) it often takes but a few weeks to become very proficient. Women, this means he lasts a lot longer and that gives you the possibility of G-spot orgasms...