Here are six very fun, erotic adventures to do with your lover. You might try printing some of these out on small, beautiful pieces of paper and then presenting them to your lover, one by one, over the course of a month. Tease a little bit by slipping the note to them a few days early so they can fantasize as part of the foreplay!

Erotic Adventure #1

Want to BLOW HER MIND? Make her think you really care? That you’re the best lover there ever was? Try this.

Some evening when you’re in a really playful mood, the energy is hot and the lights are soft, whisper this question in your gal's ear:

“Do you know what area of your clitoris is the MOST sensitive?” No, you’re not going to tell her that you just found out that in a vast majority of women it’s the 10 o'clock and 2 o’clock positions, are you? That’s 10:00 and 2:00 from your viewpoint, that is. You’re going to take a little time to explore with her. First, just happen to have a little lube close by. Then, EVER-SO-LIGHTLY guys, begin to tease her a little, just around her clitoris. Tease her and ask about a couple of other spots before going THERE. Get her feedback. She will be amazed at what you two will discover about her.

Now, let’s remember that this isn’t the magic button for all women, but a good deal of them out there will be in the percentages. And if your gal isn’t one of them well not to worry! She’s going to really love and appreciate that YOU want to know where HER spot is!

Erotic Adventure #2

Do you know the VERY best thing for recreating Harmony after a fight with your Shakti (a.k.a. Goddess)? She’s going to love you for this one!

Take her gently but firmly by the shoulders, look into her eyes and say to her “Breathe deeply with me”. Repeat it a couple of times as you lead her in a full, deep belly breath. NOW, turn her gently around, lay her down in a comfortable place and assume the SPOON Position (like two spoons lying in the drawer) with you behind her. Put your arms around her. Ask her to follow you for just 5 minutes in rhythmic deep breathing. This will completely bring the two of you back into sync. Women crave intimacy. Fill them up! Give them what they want. You’ll get back triple what you put in, guaranteed.

Erotic Adventure #3

One of the premises of Tantra is to discover the Yin/Yang (male/female) qualities in each of us. Men, in recent years it's been OK for you to experience fear and you're even encouraged to cry. Women, we're gender-bending also by exploring our power and leadership roles. Something women just can't experience though is Fellatio, right, or can they? Next time you're in your passion and things are heating up try a little toe sucking! Start really slowly and wet your lips first. Save the big toe for last. Try the moves YOU like. Get playful and see how she lights up!

Erotic Adventure #4

Find a rose, a piece of very soft fur, a new, small art style paint brush, a feather or anything you don’t have to spend much time thinking about but that you might assume would produce a VERY sensual feel. You might even want to have handy a few ice cubes (don't bring these out 'till the end and be careful, they can be shocking), some Bawdy Budder from the Tantra.com website catalog and a soft scent in a misting bottle. Try gathering at least four items. Set the scene by lighting candles, putting on soft erotic music and having something to nibble (strawberries, a little chocolate or some Mango pieces will do!) and something to drink close by.

Blindfold your lover.

NOW USE YOUR IMAGINATION! - Stroke, Lick, Touch, Explore

Erotic Adventure #5

Purchase a child’s blow-up plastic pool. Make sure it has blow-up sides and bottom, too. Choose one that will hold the two of you but that isn’t too big. You don’t want to get lost in it. Set the scene and the mood by lighting candles and having the room very warm. Place towels or, better yet, a small tarp on the carpet or floor and then put the pool on it. Have extra towels, something to drink, etc. on a low table next to the pool. Have ready 2 to 3 cups of olive oil. Gently heat it in a sauce pan. You can add a few drops of a pure essential oil for fragrance, if you wish.

When you are ready to begin your evening, both of you should shower. If you have long hair, you may want to braid it to keep it out of your eyes. Put on your favorite erotic music. Enter and sit together in the pool. Have the warm oil there and begin to generously apply it to each other’s bodies.

Go ahead and really get into it. You’re going to get very oily but it’s healthy so go for it. Eventually, put all of the oil in the pool. You’ll notice an incredible freedom to slip and slide all over each other’s bodies. This is a sensual experience to the max! You’ll feel like you’ve never had so much of your body touched and stimulated at one time. Be playful. Let your inner child come out. Fun is the name of the game here.

I don’t suggest making love, as oil may not be your lubricant of choice. You can do that later when you get out of the pool. Make sure to shower well when you’re done. I wouldn’t suggest getting in the hot tub until you’ve showered, either.

Erotic Adventure #6

Blindfold your partner and, starting with the feet, discover each and every one of their erogenous zones. Here’s a list to help you:

• Breasts
• Nipples
• Under-arms
• Toes
• Feet
• Buttocks
• Scrotum
• Inner and outer thighs
• Anus
• Neck areas
• Down your sides from under your arms to your hips
• Love-Handles
• Back of the knees
• Inside the elbows
• Fingers
• Wrists

Then trade.