Discover your own secret Mudras (sacred positions of the hands, other body parts or even the whole body that you just know are somehow magical touching secrets and titillating moves. Send your suggestions to me at suzie@tantra.com for things that are particularly Tantric to add to this list.

Gently, and then more forcibly, pull his hair - any hair. The hair follicles, buried under the skin, are nearer to the nerve endings and produce a very pleasurable feeling when brushed or pulled.

When kissing, suck on his lower lip deeply. In Tantric practice the lower lip on the man provides a direct channel to his sexual organ’s excitement.

Caress his inner thighs with a piece of fur, a feather, or your breasts. The inner thighs are exquisitely sensitive because they are relatively protected from courser contact. When soft, subtle items touch them they respond immediately.

Run your fingertips gently over his eyes, starting from the center and moving outward. Our eye lids are super sensitive and rarely do we think of touching them. Men are very visual so their eyes take in a lot of their world. This kind of touch evokes love, caring, and a soothing tenderness that puts a man into purring mode.

Rub his belly in gentle circles, with one of your free hands, as you pleasure him. This will heighten his pleasure and remind him to deep breathe into his belly. You want him to do this because it will spread his erotic energy and sloooooow him down...