Your Resource for Tantra, Tantric Sex and The Kama Sutra

A: It can be difficult finding the courage to try new things. I call upon the gentle warrior spirit in you to trust that you will not embarrass yourself if you open your throat and your mouth and let out what you are feeling! Let your partner know how vulnerable you feel around this issue. If you are soft and innocent about telling him he will show you love and compassion. Let yourself go! Long ago, when I first learned to give myself permission to make sounds, I discovered that the sounds literally transformed my experience of the orgasmic state. I became multi-orgasmic overnight! Practice making some sounds by yourself, say when you are masturbating. Breathe deeply into your belly the whole time and please focus on low tones. Low tones and deep tones come from way down in your body cavity and allow the most orgasmic response to come forth. Have fun and good luck!