Q: I have known about Tantra for about four years. My lover and I have joyously found that "there's gold in them there hills." Our conscious loving has opened vast new vistas of pleasure, and our awareness of our divinity has transformed us. I thought I was having good sex before I learned to connect and breathe the Tantric way. Now I know that good sex is OK, but great love-making is unparalleled in its healing and regenerative powers.
It has been, and continues to be, quite a journey of discovery. After we watched the very informative, tasteful and sensitive Ancient Secrets Of Sexual Ecstasy DVD, much to our surprise and delight, my Goddess began ejaculating the very next time we made love. She had never even heard of a woman doing that before, and now she ejaculates all the time.
With conscious breathing and the use of my PC muscle, I am gaining control of my ejaculation, and have experienced what I think are multiple orgasms. What I'm assuming are multiple orgasms feel like uncontrollable pleasurable little seizures. I'm wondering if these very enjoyable, albeit small multiple orgasms I'm experiencing will get any stronger. Will they get to be as powerful as an ejaculatory orgasm? Just being able to be aroused for a longer period of time is quite a bonus by itself. Being able to ride waves and waves of my lover's orgasms because I can maintain my erection much longer now is fabulous. I'm just wondering if there are men who have equally exhilarating multiple and ejaculatory orgasms. I only ask because the subtlety of my multiple orgasms makes me wonder if they really are multiple orgasms or some other kind of pleasurable twitch - that's kind of what they feel like. Since I've never experienced them before, and I'm relatively new to all this, I thought I'd ask.
None of my other male friends even believes it's possible, much less have any experience with Tantric loving. I've tried to tell them what they're missing, but even if I could put into words what bliss there is in Sky Dancing, the journey to this awareness is an individual one. Mantak Chia's book, The Multi Orgasmic Man, was my intro to all of this. I gave it to my son when he turned 18. I wish I had this information when I was learning about my body. I think it should be required reading for young men. Anyway if you can shed more light on this subject, my Goddess and I would greatly appreciate it.
