Tantra.com founder Suzie Heumann shares her views on enhancing your love life, understanding the opposite sex, and increasing your sexual pleasure. Candid and practical advice. Enjoy!.
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It's reported that up to 75 percent of all men ejaculate within two to five minutes of beginning intercourse. A survey of 1,370 men conducted by tantra.com revealed that less than 35 percent felt they had any control over when they ejaculate. One of the keys to lasting a long time men is to stay relaxed in high states of arousal.
Think of a scale of 1 to 10 when deciding how turned on you are. Say you're at about 8 and you don't know if you can tell the difference between 8 and 9. At first you'll need to stop the action. Stop, breathe deeply into your belly and completely relax and enjoy the ride. You can even try moving the energy up from your genitals, through your torso, and into your heart area.