Dear Suzie,
I'd been married for 17 years to a wonderful woman. We are both 39 years old, but after having excellent sex with my wife, I become very, very tired...almost exhausted...the rest of the day. It's like after sex I don't have energy for anything else. I feel really bad about this because my wife does not feel the same way. She say it gives her more energy!

Because of the way I feel after sex, I have been trying not to have sex as often as we used to, but my wife is not satisfied - she says she needs to have sex more often - at least three times a week. I can't keep up with her. I already went to the doctor and he prescribed me a hormone patch (Androderm 5 mg per day). I've been with this treatment for a year and it does not seem to help me. What can I do?

Please help me, R. S.

Dear R. S.,
The hormone patch may not be sufficient - you should see your doctor again to be re-evaluated...