Tantric philosophy has the intimate couple as deeply connected as possible. That means:

• Eyes wide open so that we may see our beloved
• Deep breathing to facilitate relaxation and the delivery of pheromones (our natural love chemicals) to heighten turn-on,
• Arms are being used to hold and caress,
• Hearts are touching and beating together,
• The delicate smell of your partner's breath and body,
• The ability to hear your partner's sounds, words of love and communication about what they like,
• Great physical connection that maximizes pleasure for both partners.

The missionary position, or woman on bottom - man on top, is the basic way most humans make love, most of the time. It can be satisfying at times and it can also get a little stale at times. There are a few great variations on the theme that may help you maximize the pleasure too...