In India, during the time when the Kama Sutra was at its height, the “oral arts” were highly honored. More women can achieve the orgasmic state through oral sex than they can through intercourse.

It’s a luscious activity and it requires stamina and dexterity. Cleanliness is next to godliness, so bath together as a start to your erotic activity. Lay your partner down gently and touch her body lightly all over. You may even want to begin with a light massage. This doesn’t have to be long, but it really helps to get both sexes more present and in the mood.