Why is casual sex no longer satisfying?
Robert Frey
Q: I've been able to "score" with women often enough, and at times the "hunt and conquest" has been exciting, but frankly the satisfaction is usually short-lived, and then I feel disinterested and kind of empty. Do I need therapy?
A: Frankly, an attitude adjustment wouldn't hurt you at all. Authentic, deep satisfaction comes from authentic, deep intimacy, which does not result from hunt and conquest. Intimacy develops with trust; trust develops with vulnerability and with revealing yourself -- your fears as well as your strengths. Trust also develops with loving, respecting, and honoring your partner, demonstrating that through actions of caring and kindness and through listening with interest not with agendas. By the way, nearly every woman I've polled feels that not being sincerely listened to is a major turn-off.
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Robert Frey
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The following question is answered by Robert Frey. Robert was one of the most experienced Western male Tantra teachers with over 25 years experience in healing, Psychology, Tantra, hypnosis, Eastern practices, Sufi, movement, and music. Robert passed away unexpectedly on June 15, 2004 in Maui.
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