Ancient Taoist and Tantric philosophy explains that Men’s sexual energy comes from the Earth and women’s sexual energy comes from the heavens. Substitute "Earth" with genitals and "heaven" with heart and you have the full meaning of this saying.

Though it really isn’t that cut and dry, men do tend to want sex and then intimacy and women do tend to want intimacy and then sex. In light of that, men, you may want to know a few things, beyond roses and chocolates, about driving women wild!

-Listen deeply to her. Focus on what she is saying about what she needs during sexual encounters. Ask her for clarification when you need it and give her all the time that she needs to feel complete with the communication.

-Slow way down with your touch! When you are giving sensual touch, imagine that your fingertips feel even more erotic to you than the touch you are giving to your partner. You can use your focused attention to enhance the experience coming from your fingertips. This will guarantee that your lover gets exquisitely caressed.

-Explore her whole body with your tongue, fingers, and hands as you call her "Goddess." With both of your hands, softly caress her face as you tell her what you appreciate about her...