A: Tantra is absolutely for real and practically anyone who is physically sound can develop the skills and ability for reliably creating and experiencing ecstatic sex. You will need to put some sustained effort into learning and practicing skills in order to get reliable, consistent results. As with any new skill or habit, some people learn more quickly and some more easily than others. Most men who apply themselves to this project of learning Tantra usually show remarkable benefits within six months. Yes, you undoubtedly can become a better lover!!