Q.
"My husband has been exposed to this way of life, and I wondered how to accept his new self and lover without it destroying our family and two children. I do not want to divorce, and would like to try a path of acceptance to try and understand his transformation. We are talking about a good man and a good father. Any suggestions?"

A.
I'm not sure what you mean by "this way of life." It sounds to me that your husband is asking for a polyamorous relationship. Poly means "many" and amorous means "love." Many loves is not what Tantra is about. It's about opening up to the state of being love.

While it's true that a few Tantricas explore multiple relationships, it is not a Tantric principle, per se. Tantra is a path to healing and personal enlightenment. Some sects of Tantricas are actually celibate. Western Tantra most often focuses the sensual and sexual nature on the partner...