This exercise will be both sensually fun and a learning experience. It's a partner experience. Please devote at least an hour to each of you.

Set an erotic, sensual scene by lighting a few strategically-placed candles. Put a little scent of some sort out in the room. Perhaps flowers, massage oil and something liquid to drink would be nice. Make sure the room is warm. Have everything you will require so neither of you will have to go get it later.

This is a practice in sensual touch and will be accompanied by a simple but powerful communication technique.

This is a practice in learning what you like, how to ask for it and training your partner in what you like. This is hard for some of us. Feeling worthy of asking for intimacy and having someone honor that request is tough in this modern world of independent thinkers. We often need to bring a little more humility and vulnerability into our lives. When we reveal ourselves in that way we sometimes find our partner seeing more beauty in us than ever before...