Welcome to Tantra.com's Solo Premature Ejaculation Mastery E-Course. From the following eight lessons, you'll learn to naturally and permanently stop cuming sooner than you want to. I'm going to show you the Ultimate Ecstatic Solution to unlimited sexual stamina so you can last longer anytime you make love.
My name is Somraj, a published author and Tantric mentor. Before I learned about Tantra, the ancient art of spiritual sex, I was a typical guy in the sack who couldn't last very long and didn't understand how women like to make love. Sex is so different for me now that I wrote this e-course (and my Ultimate Premature Ejaculation Mastery e-book that it's based on) to share this transformation with you.
Along with my wife, Jeffre, we founded TantraAtTahoe.com in the 90s to help lovers like you expand your sex life and bring spirit into your loveplay. Not only have we been writing, teaching, coaching, and counseling about sex and personal growth for decades, but we practice what we preach. Here I'll share with you a big part of what has helped us maintain an exciting and expanding sex life well into middle age.
What You'll Learn
What you'll learn here really works. I know because I was played guinea pig to be the test subject for all these methods. My e-book and e-course has helped thousands of men in 99 countries so far. So I firmly believe this program will help you.
Before you're done with this e-course, you'll learn to master the mechanics of ejaculation and how to separate squirting from orgasm. We'll start with some fundamentals and, once you've got them down, I'll show you how to go forever by learning to spread your sexual energy away from your jewels (genitals) and around your body.
Then you can time your delightful explosions which will undoubtedly be so much better and stronger. When you're done, you'll enjoy hours and hours of ecstasy each time you have sex.
And your journey to that easily achievable goal will be great fun, too.
Contrary to what you might have heard from guys who tell you to think about baseball or your grandmother to keep from blowing it, the Ultimate Ecstatic Solution is about MORE ecstasy, not LESS sensation.
Inquiry: Starting Point
Occasionally you'll find Inquiry Questions like the ones that follow throughout your e-course. Take the time to answer them for yourself about what you experienced while reading or practicing. They're designed to help you look inside at what's going on physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. If you have a partner, you can discuss what comes up as well. Keeping track by writing your answers and experiences in a personal journal is a powerful tool that many use.
These first questions are designed to help you get clear on your starting point.
- How much control do you typically have over your ejaculations?
- How long can you last while self-pleasuring?
- How long can you last while enjoying sexual union (intercourse)?
- Have you ever experienced orgasm without ejaculation?
Just A Little Fun Sexual Exercise
So how is the Solo Premature Ejaculation Mastery E-Course going to change your sexual stamina permanently? That's where Tantra comes in, the science and practice of mastering your sacred sexuality energy. Thousands of years ago, ordinary men in India, China, and Tibet mastered what you'll read here. You can, too. You're probably healthier and more evolved than them, right? It'll just take a little fun exercise.
You do realize that reading these lessons isn't enough, right?
I'm convinced that you can change your sexual patterns if you practice regularly. My extensive research into modern sexology as well as Eastern spirituality confirms that. Which is why each lesson centers around a couple proven exercises. Ideally, you'll reserve 30 to 60 minutes several times each week to do each lesson's practice assignments, some of them over and over.
While we're on the subject of timing, you're well aware that it takes two to Tango, right? Which is why this program contains the solo exercises so you develop the skills and consciousness you need to last much, much longer. But there is a second program, Couples Premature Ejaculation Mastery E-Course, which is about coming together (and, yes, cuming together) with a lover who wants to play with you this way.
How Long Will It Take?
How long will it take for you to change the sexual dynamics that you've lived with for years? Well, that depends on many factors, foremost amongst them is how much you practice. Some guys change dramatically after the first lesson. But most take several months to break through. While I was studying, learning, and figuring this stuff out, it took me about 8 months. You'll most likely be much faster now that the system is perfected and used successfully by thousands of guys like you.
But what's a few weeks or months of fun sexual exercise for such an incredible pay-off? In fact, this natural cure is something I continue to work on even after years of practice.
As I mentioned, this e-course is based on my best-selling, complete e-book, Ultimate Premature Ejaculation Mastery, which contains much greater coverage and 50 exercises for solo and partner work. Because most guys don't need everything that I've packed into those 188 pages, I'm confident the key actions in this e-course will give you what you need for the solo learning process.
Inquiry: Why Are You Here?
- What initially interested you in this e-course?
- Do you have any of the above benefits on your private wish list?
- What are you hoping to accomplish by practicing the exercises in this e-course?
The Ultimate Ecstatic Solution
OK, enough introduction, let's get to work. I mean, play, that's our whole point, right?
The approach to learning the Ultimate Ecstatic Solution is a six-step formula I've abbreviated RAMPER which stands for:
- Relax,
- Awareness,
- Measure,
- Pace yourself,
- Energy circulation, and
- Ride the wave.
Let me introduce you to each step so you'll have an idea what you'll be practicing in the coming lessons.
R = Relax
What normally happens to your body when you cum? You tense up and contract your pelvic muscles, especially around you butt, anus, stomach, and legs.
What do you think would happen if your muscles stayed completely relaxed when you were highly excited? You probably wouldn't cum. This is the simplest technique and the hardest to learn. If you can do this right now, then, congratulations, you've graduated from this program. But chances are it's going to take you a while to master the simplicity of relaxing just like it did for me.
But you are getting the point, right? A fundamental feature of the Ultimate Ecstatic Solution is relaxing. Tension blocks your blood flow and your feelings, not to mention the flow of orgasmic energy. When your channels are blocked, your sexual energy collects in your jewels (genitals). As it builds up with nowhere else to go, you feel more and more pressure to ejaculate. The energy seeks the path of least resistance, out the tip of your vajra (penis).
When you relax instead, open your inner channels, and let the energy that fuels orgasm move up your body, you can more easily replace the rush to climax with the desire to savor the sensations in every moment.
Relax, and your sexual energy will set you free. You can quote me on that.
A = Awareness
The second vital step of RAMPER is Awareness. When you understand what goes on in your body when you ejaculate and when you orgasm, you'll be much more likely to master the forces that compel you.
Most of us who cum too quickly aren't real great at recognizing the internal signals that could warn us of impending ejaculation. Frankly, as a general rule, guys don't learn to value, notice, and accept their feelings.
In the coming lessons, I'll explain ejaculation anatomy, sensory awareness, and step-by-step directions so you develop the heightened sensitivity you need to master the Ultimate Ecstatic Solution.
M = Measure Your Level Of Arousal
The M in RAMPER means to monitor and measure your level of arousal. This is not just a scientific experiment, but a method of helping you tune in to what makes you excited. If you know where your excitement level is and what causes it in each moment, then you can relax more easily, be more spontaneous, but most important stretch out your enjoyment and that of your partner.
When you measure your turn-on continuously, then you can guide your lovemaking so that you get really excited and stay there without going too far all of a sudden. In other words, this is how you take responsibility for your own pleasure.
P = Pace Yourself
OK, you've relaxed. You've become more sensitive. You've measured how good it feels. Will these change your stamina dramatically? Well, maybe. But really the RAM part of RAMPER is simply vital preparation for the P step, the heart of the Ultimate Ecstatic Solution. P stands for Pacing yourself.
No, I take that back. P stands for Pleasure. If your focus is on pleasure not orgasm, then you won't be rushing headlong towards a destination. You won't be in a race towards the finish line. You won't have a schedule to meet. You'll just slow down and enjoy. That's a big part of pacing. And if you learn how to make the pleasure you enjoy greater than any quick dribble you've ever experienced, you'll want to pace yourself for more, More, and MORE!
The key skills to pacing yourself are two more P words, peaking and plateauing. You'll learn how to let your pleasure rise sharply without going over the edge, the point of no return when cuming is unavoidable, and then how to float there.
E = Energy Circulation
E stands for energy and circulating it away from your jewels. But it could also stand for Ecstasy. In fact, you might consider the Ultimate Ecstatic Solution teaching about S.E.X. which is really Subtle Energy eXstacy.
Because most of us are programmed to rush towards the Big Orgasm, we come into the arena of loveplay aiming to release our sexual energy through explosive jewel orgasms. Well, that can be great fun, but when it's all you know, it's your only option.
So here's a vital part of your initiation, you lucky stiff. Instead of shooting for a quick Big O, as your arousal builds, learn to spread your orgasmic energy up, around, and throughout your body. Not only will it feel ecstatic, but since you won't be depleting your energy, you'll be able to last and last and last.
Later in this e-course, I'll introduce you to the fundamentals of creating, tuning into, and circulating sexual energy. This is the doorway to various types of single, multiple, and extended orgasms.
R = Ride The Orgasmic Wave
When you retain your energy inside, your pleasure rises to higher and higher levels. That's why the acronym RAMPER is so apt, describing how your pleasure ramps up. Those of us who cum quickly never experience these escalating plateaus. We never develop our capacity to absorb more and more pleasure. When we finally do, it feels like ecstatic waves surging inside. That's what R is about, Riding the wave.
You see how the Ultimate Ecstatic Solution is ecstatic when all the pieces come together? You relax and heighten your awareness of your senses to open yourself to subtle energy. By measuring your arousal, you learn to pace, peak, and plateau. This builds up intense energy which you circulate around your body instead of exploding in a quick ejaculation. Then the wave takes you, and you just float.
What's An E-course?
I call this an e-course because it's a series of electronic lessons. Don't let the term "course" put you off. There are no grades, no tests, no academic hoops to jump through. But there is a lot of homework. Actually, I prefer to call it homeplay since it's going to be great fun, especially down the road.
You've already noticed that I use some special terms for sexual and spiritual things. I'll remind you so you can get the hang of Tantra speak. I didn't have room for the complete glossary in my e-book but if you ever get confused, just use the FIND command on your lessons to find the definition in parentheses.
It's not enough to understand the steps of RAMPER. The Solo Premature Ejaculation Mastery E-Course will teach you a series of different exercises to develop the skills of RAMPER. In each lesson, we'll introduce you to several new ones. Some you'll only need to do once. Others will require days or weeks of repeated practice. Just like building a house, if your foundation (the skills of RAMPER) is shaky, it will fall down (you'll still come too quick).
Now you know one reason why this training program is an e-course, a series of lessons. The benefits offered by the Solo Premature Ejaculation Mastery E-Course don't come instantly. They take continuing practice.
Don't Expect Instant Gratification
The sexual transformation you're seeking isn't going to happen overnight. Or over a few nights. Ingrained physical patterns need enough repetition to shift you out of the groove of your comfort zone.
If you're new to Tantra, you'll undoubtedly make some mind-altering discoveries as we guide you to bring spirit into the realm of physical pleasure. We hope you realize that this e-course is just a basic step into the myriad of techniques and approaches available in Tantra that can help you get everything you want in and out of bed.
For now, just remember the origins of your Solo Premature Ejaculation Mastery E-Course grew out of the ancient spiritual metaphysics of love, sex, and intimacy from India thousands of years ago.
Fortunately, the exercises we'll teach you in this e-course are easy and inexpensive to do. In fact, they're completely free unless you get interested in some of the additional tools you can find in Lesson 8.
Inquiry: Practice Commitment
- Are you willing to practice each exercise until you get it?
- Are you willing to follow the RAMPER formula in sequence, building each skill in turn?
- How many days a week are you willing to practice for 30 to 60 minutes?
Lesson Outline
Here's a brief introduction to each lesson with live links you can use to jump to your next lesson. You're welcome to read them all before you start. Just be sure you go back to Lesson 1 to start your exercises in sequence. And then move on the later exercises when you've mastered each one in turn.
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