Like meditation and yoga, Tantric sex is a spiritual practice. It is not aimed at self-indulgence or pleasure as an end in itself.
Tantra uses sexual energy, with all of its rawness, social stigma, fear, and vulnerability to crack open our egos so that we can be present
with our lovers, and ultimately, with ourselves.
The sacred sexuality seeker may find that many of the components of ancient Tantric practices integrate well with our daily lives. In fact,
the experiences one has practicing Tantra can give one tools for being more present and aware in all aspects of one's life.
Tantra is sometimes called the sexual yoga, though this concept can be misinterpreted. Yoga is another term associated with practices
that help to unify apparent opposites. When doing yoga, you are actually performing an active meditation, focusing your energy on internal,
as well as external, points. You bring much more awareness to the body and mind with yoga. In Tantric sexual practices the same is true.
The beauty of Tantra is that it is a partnered path of learning. Trusting another with your personal growth is the ultimate act of
surrender--and surrendering is where breakthroughs can happen. Two people taking conscious risks that gently stretch the limits of their
comfort zones can realize great growth individually and as partners.
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Tantra Yoni Massage
The purpose of the tantra yoni massage is to create a space for the woman to receive focused attention so that she can attain long, delicious
states of relaxation and achieve high states of sustained arousal. This tantric massage allows her to recognize and experience her mind and body
during deep pleasure derived from her Yoni. Her partner, the giver, will experience the joy of being of service and witnessing
the profound pleasure potential a woman is capable of.
A tantra yoni massage builds trust and intimacy and it is important for the giver to remember this aspect. Soft, attentive communication
is paramount to its success as emotional issues from past trauma are likely to arise during any session, especially at first. Various forms
of Yoni Massage can be used to assist women to release blocks, past trauma and pain so that the woman can move forward towards
a fuller expression of her physical nature.
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Touching Can Save Lives
Suzie Heumann
I'm a sensual kind of person. My body informs me. As a species, we humans have generally forgotten to pay attention to the information our
bodies are revealing to us. We're a thinking species and by being thus we think ourselves through situations rather than feeling through
situations. This leads to a systematic demise of our abilities to recognize bodily functions that can lead us to healing modalities we
used to know about back when our brains weren't so big.
Scientists, with the aid of new tools and resources, are leading us back to an understanding that will help us reincorporate this deep
and ancient knowledge. For instance, recent studies have revealed an incredible healing facet through touch. These studies have come
about through the curious representation of whiskers and the understanding that some parts of our bodies take up larger areas of our
brain matter than other areas do. Remember the homunculus? This is that odd looking little "man" that is superimposed over the brain
with big hands, lips, genitals, feet, head and other features that are out of proportion to the rest of his body. He is a representation
of our brain parts and an illustration of how they are mapped on our brain. Some parts have much more sensory input than other parts hence
the bigger representation on the homunculus.
This stands to reason because our feet, hands and lips do a lot more "testing" of the environment than do, say, our elbows. These parts
have more neurons, and more of a variety of neurons, than other areas of our body and so need more neural space in the brain to hold
the information they gather and use for future advancement. It turns out that they also have the power to heal us in some very profound ways...
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One aspect of tantric sex for men focuses on transmuting sexual energy by learning not to ejaculate. This can
become a spiritually empowering practice, as well as a way to extend the pleasure of intercourse. The Taoists
speak about the health-giving aspects of withholding semen, while Gedun Chopel wrote about the pleasure of not
reaching for more pleasure, and the states of ecstatic consciousness that open up when one is not attached to
or striving for more pleasure.
The Roots of Tantra
Tantra, or Vajrayana, (meaning "The Diamond Vehicle"), influenced Buddhism in Tibet, Bhutan, Nepal, Ladakh
and Mongolia thousands of years ago. Rather than removing ones self from stimulating influences and upsetting
emotions in order to focus on transcendence, the Vajrayana practices embrace paradoxical and contradictory states.
Practitioners experience what is beyond the polarities of life, such as pleasure and pain, attraction and repulsion.
Profound and intense feelings arise in meditation. As the energies are deeply experienced, they begin to change form
and yield to a spacious, grounded sense of balance. The Buddhists call this natural state of goodness the ground of being.
We experience it as a feeling of tenderness, joy, fluidity, generosity and peace.
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Tantric Ejaculation Mastery
According to some estimates, about 30 percent of American men reach orgasm earlier than they'd like to.
Decades ago Alfred Kinsey, one of the early famous sex researchers, found that 75% of the men he tested ejaculated within
two minutes of vaginal entry. Pretty quick, don't you think? Yeah, well, I can remember when I regularly beat that record.
The good news is that this sad situation motivated sex therapists to develop successful solutions to premature ejaculation.
And it spurred us Tantra folks to study the ancient texts for powerful secrets of mastering our orgasms. I've tried them all
and some work tremendously. So I wrote an electronic book to share my experience with others who want to last longer.
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Helping a Woman to Ejaculate
When your tantra partner first tells you about her interest in female ejaculation, it is wise to take a back seat, keep an open mind, and
see what transpires. Let her get used to the idea, and encourage her to experiment and
develop her abilities on her own for a while. I recommend that women learn how to ejaculate
on their own at first, find their G-spot, learn how to stimulate it, and how to build and expel ejaculate fluid.
Once female ejaculation is achieved in this solo manner, a woman will have more success ejaculating with
a partner.
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New Female Ejaculation Videos
"G-Spot Wisdom:
Female Desire & Orgasmic Explosions"
G-Spot Wisdom is a brand new addition to the Tantra.com Premium Video Collection.
Glamour television has
created a fresh inquisition into the elusive spheres of female orgasm. In an effort to excavate the deeper dimensions of female sexuality a
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This documentary film brings to convergence studies in sexology, physiology, and holistic female sexuality against the experimental backdrop of
explosive female eroticism.
From this point forward, G-Spot orgasms, female ejaculation and blended orgasms are merely a collective consequence of mindful erotic wisdom
in female sexuality.
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"Divine Nectar: A Guide to Female Ejaculation"
Divine Nectar is an erotic and educational visual delight about female ejaculation and personal empowerment. This recent addition to
the Tantra.com Premium Video Collection
features several artists, musicians, and juicy women from the San Francisco Bay area demonstrating and discussing female ejaculation
with their partners.
Divine Nectar weaves an epic erotic adventure with visionary art animation and a luscious soundtrack complete with
revolutionary erotic techniques and education. Unique in its approach to sacred erotic education, Divine Nectar
activates us to access our unlimited potential and take our sexuality to a whole new level.
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The "Kama Sutra" -it brings to mind fantasy and wonderment about the possibilities
of sexual eroticism and adventure. It's a buzzword for sexual pleasure and enjoyment and we all want more of that.
Almost everyone has heard of the Kama Sutra. "Kama" means all things pleasurable, such as sexuality and sensuality,
but it also encompasses eating, gaming, cultural activities and activities with friends and family. Kama is the name
of the Indian God that represents the procreative, sexual nature in man, much like Eros did to the Greeks. "Sutra"
means a short book of sayings or aphorisms. It is an ancient manual of love and relationship. The
Kama Sutra is most often associated with the sexual acts and sexual positions. It does an exemplary job at this,
however, that's not all it offers.
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