Like meditation and yoga, Tantric sex is a spiritual practice. It is not aimed at self-indulgence or pleasure as an end in itself.
Tantra uses sexual energy, with all of its rawness, social stigma, fear, and vulnerability to crack open our egos so that we can be present
with our lovers, and ultimately, with ourselves.
The sacred sexuality seeker may find that many of the components of ancient Tantric practices integrate well with our daily lives. In fact,
the experiences one has practicing Tantra can give one tools for being more present and aware in all aspects of one's life.
Tantra is sometimes called the sexual yoga, though this concept can be misinterpreted. Yoga is another term associated with practices
that help to unify apparent opposites. When doing yoga, you are actually performing an active meditation, focusing your energy on internal,
as well as external, points. You bring much more awareness to the body and mind with yoga. In Tantric sexual practices the same is true.
The beauty of Tantra is that it is a partnered path of learning. Trusting another with your personal growth is the ultimate act of
surrender--and surrendering is where breakthroughs can happen. Two people taking conscious risks that gently stretch the limits of their
comfort zones can realize great growth individually and as partners.
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Tantra Yoni Massage
The purpose of the tantra yoni massage is to create a space for the woman to receive focused attention so that she can attain long, delicious
states of relaxation and achieve high states of sustained arousal. This tantric massage allows her to recognize and experience her mind and body
during deep pleasure derived from her Yoni. Her partner, the giver, will experience the joy of being of service and witnessing
the profound pleasure potential a woman is capable of.
A tantra yoni massage builds trust and intimacy and it is important for the giver to remember this aspect. Soft, attentive communication
is paramount to its success as emotional issues from past trauma are likely to arise during any session, especially at first. Various forms
of Yoni Massage can be used to assist women to release blocks, past trauma and pain so that the woman can move forward towards
a fuller expression of her physical nature.
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Unplugged Tantra:
3 Easy Steps to Recharging for Two
Suzie Heumann
It's a crazy life and you probably don't need to be reminded about it again. The thing is, we get stuck in the rut like hamsters on a wheel,
and we can't see clearly enough to get creative about shifting our experiences. How do you integrate everything you want to do in life and
have less stress? Here are some ideas that will help you loosen those wound-up strings, increase your love juice, help you relax better at
any given time and radically improve your sex life. Sound too good to be true? Only you will be able to tell, once you give it a try.
What do you think when you hear the word Tantra? You probably think: "A lot of sex for a long period of time." You can go there if you want
to but Western Tantric practices are more about taking the goals out of sexual activities, bringing in the practices of consciousness and
relating consciously, sensual expression and the experience of spending time in the realms of oneness with, well, everything. Everything
includes your lover, partner, your breath, their body, a "higher power" and even maybe the whole universe. In these times of global change,
feeling more a part of everything around you helps to recharge and replenish You.
If you're putting off sensual and sexual activities because you're too tired or busy you are undermining your emotional connection with your
lover and your self. The neurotransmitter oxytocin is the bonding hormone that is produced during birthing, breastfeeding, nipple stimulation,
kissing, orgasm, eye gazing and touching. In fact, researchers are finding more actions to attribute the release of oxytocin to all the time.
Whether it is a big expression or a relatively small dose, this is the stuff of emotional bonding, relaxation and lasting love. Five out of
the seven things on the list above occur during sex!
Though an orgasm, or two, is wonderful, devoting 30 minutes to some softly structured intimacy practices can be the icing on the cake or the
preliminaries to actually eating the cake! Whether sex is in the picture or not here are three practices that will keep you intimately connected
and charged up while bringing you pure relaxation at the same time...
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One aspect of tantric sex for men focuses on transmuting sexual energy by learning not to ejaculate. This can
become a spiritually empowering practice, as well as a way to extend the pleasure of intercourse. The Taoists
speak about the health-giving aspects of withholding semen, while Gedun Chopel wrote about the pleasure of not
reaching for more pleasure, and the states of ecstatic consciousness that open up when one is not attached to
or striving for more pleasure.
When we make love without a goal and view our beloved with awe, sex has the potential to take us beyond pleasure.
Orgasms that begin locally in the genitals spread until every fiber of our being is vibrating with life's energy.
The energetic quality of aliveness, release and pleasure that we call orgasm can be a portal to unbounded states
where distinctions between self and other dissolve and we feel a sense of oneness with all of existence.
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Tantric Ejaculation Mastery
According to some estimates, about 30 percent of American men reach orgasm earlier than they'd like to.
Decades ago Alfred Kinsey, one of the early famous sex researchers, found that 75% of the men he tested ejaculated within
two minutes of vaginal entry. Pretty quick, don't you think? Yeah, well, I can remember when I regularly beat that record.
The good news is that this sad situation motivated sex therapists to develop successful solutions to premature ejaculation.
And it spurred us Tantra folks to study the ancient texts for powerful secrets of mastering our orgasms. I've tried them all
and some work tremendously. So I wrote an electronic book to share my experience with others who want to last longer.
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Helping a Woman to Ejaculate
When your tantra partner first tells you about her interest in female ejaculation, it is wise to take a back seat, keep an open mind, and
see what transpires. Let her get used to the idea, and encourage her to experiment and
develop her abilities on her own for a while. I recommend that women learn how to ejaculate
on their own at first, find their G-spot, learn how to stimulate it, and how to build and expel ejaculate fluid.
Once female ejaculation is achieved in this solo manner, a woman will have more success ejaculating with
a partner.
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G-Spot Wisdom is a brand new addition to the Tantra.com Premium Video Collection.
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This documentary film brings to convergence studies in sexology, physiology, and holistic female sexuality against the experimental backdrop of
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From this point forward, G-Spot orgasms, female ejaculation and blended orgasms are merely a collective consequence of mindful erotic wisdom
in female sexuality.
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"Divine Nectar: A Guide to Female Ejaculation"
Divine Nectar is an erotic and educational visual delight about female ejaculation and personal empowerment. This recent addition to
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features several artists, musicians, and juicy women from the San Francisco Bay area demonstrating and discussing female ejaculation
with their partners.
Divine Nectar weaves an epic erotic adventure with visionary art animation and a luscious soundtrack complete with
revolutionary erotic techniques and education. Unique in its approach to sacred erotic education, Divine Nectar
activates us to access our unlimited potential and take our sexuality to a whole new level.
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The "Kama Sutra" -it brings to mind fantasy and wonderment about the possibilities
of sexual eroticism and adventure. It's a buzzword for sexual pleasure and enjoyment and we all want more of that.
Almost everyone has heard of the Kama Sutra. "Kama" means all things pleasurable, such as sexuality and sensuality,
but it also encompasses eating, gaming, cultural activities and activities with friends and family. Kama is the name
of the Indian God that represents the procreative, sexual nature in man, much like Eros did to the Greeks. "Sutra"
means a short book of sayings or aphorisms. It is an ancient manual of love and relationship. The
Kama Sutra is most often associated with the sexual acts and sexual positions. It does an exemplary job at this,
however, that's not all it offers.
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